When I found out I was pregnant with my first child, I was excited and joyful but as time went on, fear and anxiety started to creep in. Like many first-time mothers, I was nervous about what was to come. I read books, watched videos, and listened to doctors, but nothing seemed to calm my […]
In a world where we share everything, our meals, milestones, opinions and so on, it’s easy to fall into the trap of judging others. Especially online, where the full story is rarely told, and where compassion can feel like a scarce commodity. But here’s the truth worth sharing, just because life is easy for you […]
When I made my first trip abroad, it wasn’t just about seeing a new country. Yes, I was curious, curious about what life looked like beyond the borders of my home, curious about visiting some places I had only read about, secured visas, and booked flights for others. As a travel consultant, I travelled through […]
Living in the UK has been an enriching experience for me, full of lessons, one of which was the importance of being a good listener. This might seem like a simple or even obvious skill, but I have come to understand that true listening is far more than just hearing someone speak. It is an […]
Since Ada Ujaliagba shared a postabout graduates doing honest labour to earn a living, I have been reading a lot from people who feel they deserve more and shouldn’t settle for just any job. While it’s important to understand your value and stand firm in it, it’s equally important to understand that having a paying […]
Once upon a time, I lived in a busy city and did the same things every day. I had a job, followed the rules, and tried to be kind and careful. People liked me because I was always the same, calm, polite, and never caused trouble. But inside, I felt like something was missing. I […]
Motherhood changes you. Not all at once, and not always in ways you expect, but slowly, deeply, and in ways that stick. It starts with the obvious shifts. Your body changes, your emotions ride waves you’ve never known before, and suddenly, your life isn’t just yours anymore. But beyond the sleepless nights and lullabies, there’s […]